My First Sex Toy

Roadie traveled a lot when the kids were younger and I naturally got lonely and very sexually frustrated. One day I received a catalog in the mail (yes, this was before the internet). I wasn’t sure what it was when I got it, but the name Xanadu intrigued me. Wow, was I surprised!

You see in my teenage years during the mid-70’s and early 80’s in conservative Texas asking a boy out on a date was being a bit slutty. So the discussion of dildos and vibrators between mothers and daughters – much less girlfriends – was totally out of the question. We just thought petting in the backseat of the car and running to ‘third base’ was all we could do til marriage. I didn’t even know about sex toys.

So I opened the pages to a whole new world. There were products listed and pictured that I had no idea where you stuck them or what they were suppose to do. Some items made me excited and others just made me want to run for the soap and water. I wasn’t sure if these would help my frustration, but I was willing to find out.

I purchased my first sex toy, a pink dildo. It was oddly large and I was doubtful I could use the whole thing. It had no moving parts inside and required a lot of work to get me excited. Sadly, I didn’t even know about lubrication gels. Needless to say my first experience was a bust.

After several months of trying to make the toy work I gave up and threw it away. A year later and still being a virtual roadie widow, I decided I may have cut my experience short and I should try something different. I purchased another dildo and again it was pink and huge, but this time it had a tiny vibrator located at the bottom of the shaft. This made all the difference in the world. I discovered I am a clit girl and life has not been the same since.

The BulletMy next sex toy was the old trusty bullet and OH MY GOD that was the magic bullet. These small (hardly intimidating) and inexpensive vibrating shaped eggs are intensely strong and easy to use. This soon became the most important toy in my sexscapades with Roadie. Next we experimented with vibrating butterflies, remote-control vibrating panties, cock rings with vibrators and the list goes on with much satisfaction.

So if I had not tried a second time, I may have never found my true hot spot and never had the amazing sexual awakening that I am now experiencing. If you have not added a sex toy to your bedroom games yet, give one a try. You can start small with bullets, dildos or rabbits and move up to the more complex products out on the market today. I guarantee you can find something you and your partner like and sex will be so much better.
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